Sweeet just got it to work.
Basically the problem was that I had to add a COM port through my latop as an "incoming" port.
I follwed the instructions found here:
http://axim.dpicts.com/
You'll notice the part where, after updating your bluetooth drivers, you create an incoming port just by pressing "ok" even though no device is shown. Then it showed up for me in activesync.
Thanks Mahstah for your suggestions.
Now i just gotta get my WLAN to work with Odyssey client WPA/TKIP (my school requires odyssey...ahhhhh)